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	<description>Home Education,  life and how to survive it.</description>
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		<title>Sir Winston Churchill (1874-1965)</title>
		<link>http://familytreehouse.co.uk/2010/03/13/sir-winston-churchill-1874-1965/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Mar 2010 00:40:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Vicki</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;Schools have not necessarily much to do with education&#8230; they are mainly institutions of control, where basic habits must be inculcated in the young. Education is quite different and has little place in school.&#8221; Sir Winston Churchill (1874-1965)]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Schools have<br />
not necessarily much to do with education&#8230; they are mainly<br />
institutions of control, where basic habits must be inculcated in the<br />
young. Education is quite different and has little place in school.&#8221;<br />
Sir Winston Churchill (1874-1965)</p>
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		<title>And todays bargain was&#8230;.</title>
		<link>http://familytreehouse.co.uk/2010/02/04/and-todays-bargain-was/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 17:13:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Vicki</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[50 fat balls for £5 from netto.. now that is approcimatly a £3 saving&#8230;for 50 or £6 for 100. As we bought to buckets.. we have still saved ourself £6. Also from netto &#8211; we dont shop there often.. was 500 grm butter for £1.. that will do for baking with. We have finally returned [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>50 fat balls for £5 from netto.. now that is approcimatly a £3 saving&#8230;for 50 or £6 for 100. As we bought to buckets.. we have still saved ourself £6.</p>
<p>Also from netto &#8211; we dont shop there often.. was 500 grm butter for £1.. that will do for baking with. </p>
<p>We have finally returned our three bag fulls of books and audio tapes to the library. and bought home a couple of audio books.  Story time was on, and Asha dosnt really enjoy it, so we didnt stay long. </p>
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		<title>Its 9 pm&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://familytreehouse.co.uk/2010/01/31/its-9-pm/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Jan 2010 21:08:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Vicki</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Time for Asha to turn of her light and get some sleep. She has finally got into a routine. I agree it is demanding for Steve, but Asha is sleeping a lot better, and generally looking and behaving a lot better for it. Her routine now is : 7 pm,,, P.J&#8217;s and cereal, plus drink. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Time for Asha to turn of her light and get some sleep. She has finally got into a routine. I agree it is demanding for Steve, but Asha is sleeping a lot better, and generally looking and behaving a lot better for it. </p>
<p>Her routine now is : 7 pm,,, P.J&#8217;s and cereal, plus drink. 7.30 up to bed, where daddy reads to her untill 8. They are currently reading the Lord Of The Rings &#8211; The Fellowship of the Ring. </p>
<p>At this point, Daddy comes downstairs and Asha is allowed to read untill 9 pm, at which time daddy goes up tucks her in and she normally now settles down to sleep, before 10. </p>
<p>Most nights now she is sleeping though, to around 8.30. At which point she comes and wakes Daddy up. and they go downstairs..</p>
<p>Anyway.. i digress.. Its 9 pm.. We have just made some buscuits as we have had none all weekend, and i get annoyed with the rubbish that is found in shop bought ones. I have a rucksack full of books to return to the library tomorrow, and Steve is enjoying a break, after a busy day of cooking roast dinner. I am wearing my home grown.. woollen coat, and am considering the fact that in 3 days time i need to have enough bits of card cut out for 20 home educated children to make a horse and cart&#8230; Guess what tomorrow night is going to be!</p>
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		<title>I dont believe in god&#8230; but i do believe</title>
		<link>http://familytreehouse.co.uk/2010/01/27/i-dont-believe-in-god-but-i-do-believe/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Jan 2010 17:36:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Vicki</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[that there are powers and energies out there which we have no control over.. Have you ever tried to catch a wave?? So for me, instead of using the word Lord i use energy&#8230; I give this to all my friends who are finding life tough right now. Footprints One night a man had a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> that there are powers and energies out there which we have no control over.. Have you ever tried to catch a wave?? </p>
<p>So for me, instead of using the word Lord i use energy&#8230;</p>
<p>I give this to all my friends who are finding life tough right now. </p>
<p> Footprints</p>
<p>One night a man had a dream. He dreamed He was walking along the beach with the LORD. Across the sky flashed scenes from His life. For each scene He noticed two sets of footprints in the sand. One belonging to Him and the other to the LORD.</p>
<p>When the last scene of His life flashed before Him, he looked back at the footprints in the sand. He noticed that many times along the path of His life there was only one set of footprints. He also noticed that it happened at the very lowest and saddest times of His life.</p>
<p>This really bothered Him and He questioned the LORD about it. LORD you said that once I decided to follow you, you&#8217;d walk with me all the way. But I have noticed that during the most troublesome times in my life there is only one set of footprints. I don&#8217;t understand why when I needed you most you would leave me.</p>
<p>The LORD replied, my precious, precious child, I Love you and I would never leave you! During your times of trial and suffering when you see only one set of footprints, it was then that I carried you.</p>
<p>Carolyn Carty, 1963</p>
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		<title>Necessity is the plea</title>
		<link>http://familytreehouse.co.uk/2010/01/23/necessity-is-the-plea/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Jan 2010 15:38:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Vicki</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Necessity is the plea for every infringement of human freedom. It is the argument of tyrants; it is the creed of slaves. William Pitt Think about it!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Necessity is the plea for every infringement of human freedom. It is the argument of tyrants; it is the creed of slaves.<br />
    William Pitt</p>
<p>Think about it!   </p>
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		<title>School Reunion.</title>
		<link>http://familytreehouse.co.uk/2010/01/22/school-reunion/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Jan 2010 17:43:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Vicki</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Well I got an email through today asking me if i wanted to attend an school reunion in June. If you know of someone who was a student at Wellington school on the Wirral before it got knocked down, please pass the word. We have ended up all around the world, but as many as [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well I got an email through today asking me if i wanted to attend an school reunion in June. </p>
<p><a href="http://familytreehouse.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/wellington.jpg"><img src="http://familytreehouse.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/wellington.jpg" alt="Wellington School.   A LOVELY old building..." title="wellington" width="200" height="144" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1671" /></a><br />
If you know of someone who was a student at Wellington school on the Wirral before it got knocked down, please pass the word. We have ended up all around the world, but as many as possible would be good! </p>
<p>Dan can be found on facebook,  as can &#8220;Wellington School Bebington&#8221;  but if you want me to act as go between, just let me know! </p>
<p> Dan Smith    22 January at 12:15  Reply<br />
Hi all,</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve booked the Birkenhead Cricket Club function room / pavillion for:</p>
<p>Friday 25th June. 6pm &#8211; midnight.</p>
<p>http://bpcc.play-cricket.com/content/view.asp?id=10226341&#038;cid=202</p>
<p>I hope this date is fine for everyone.</p>
<p>In answer to a few questions:</p>
<p>Kids are welcome, as long as they are supervised. Plenty of room to play outside on the cricket field too.</p>
<p>Dress code.. shall we say smart-casual?</p>
<p>The music will not be banging all night, the volume will be monitored &#038; always appropriate. The room that we&#8217;ll be using is long&#8230; from the dancefloor area through the function room, to the foyer, exit and outside, so plenty of areas to chat, inside and out.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m gonna put together a playlist of good music.. 60s, 70s, 80s &#038; 90s eclectic groove based. Turntables will be there, so if anyone needs to DJ then feel free to bring your tunes (Vinyl or MP3). I probably wont get on the decks myself as this has been my job for the last 13 years every Friday &#038; Saturday night, so I&#8217;d much rather catch up with a lot of my old pals.</p>
<p>more stuff to sort out..</p>
<p>Had a couple of offers to help with food. I&#8217;d much rather keep the budget down, so would rather not get caterers in. How about if people make / buy &#038; bring a dish each???<br />
Anything buffet style.. crisps &#038; dips etc?<br />
Let me know.</p>
<p>As I&#8217;m Manchester based, would anyone be up for popping down to the venue asap to formerly secure this date?<br />
To avoid losing our slot, they just need someone to sign a booking form in person. No deposit required.<br />
Eileen is the venue manager, she&#8217;s there Fri &#038; Sat from 5pm, or Tues to Thurs from 6pm. Please let me know if anyone can help here.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll put a couple of notices in the local Wirral press, say April / May?</p>
<p>OK, that&#8217;s all for now folks, any questions or thoughts just message me.</p>
<p>Looking forward to it!</p>
<p>Regards,</p>
<p>Dan.</p>
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		<title>Time&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://familytreehouse.co.uk/2010/01/21/time/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 21 Jan 2010 01:40:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Vicki</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I found this photograph today, from when Asha was around 1 and it reminded me how important it is to sit and talk to children.. all children.. how ever old they may be.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I found this photograph today, from when Asha was around 1 and it reminded me how important it is to sit and talk to children.. all children.. how ever old they may be.<br />
<a href="http://familytreehouse.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/ashamummy.jpg"><img src="http://familytreehouse.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/ashamummy-300x199.jpg" alt="Asha holding her finger to her mummys lips." title="Time to talk" width="300" height="199" class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1657" /></a></p>
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		<title>Isnt this all a bit too cushy ?</title>
		<link>http://familytreehouse.co.uk/2010/01/19/isnt-this-all-a-bit-too-cushy/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jan 2010 00:35:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Vicki</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Forestry Commission scraps Magna Carta right to collect woods from forests The right of people to collect wood from Britain’s forests that was created under the Magna Carta has been overturned due to health and safety fears. By Chris Irvine Published: 9:28PM GMT 26 Oct 2008 http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/3264458/Forestry-Commission-scraps-Magna-Carta-right-to-collect-woods-from-forests.html then we get http://www.forestry.gov.uk/forestry/INFD-7KTLDR Forestry Commission Wales (FCW) [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Forestry Commission scraps Magna Carta right to collect woods from forests<br />
The right of people to collect wood from Britain’s forests that was created under the Magna Carta has been overturned due to health and safety fears.<br />
By Chris Irvine<br />
Published: 9:28PM GMT 26 Oct 2008</p>
<p>http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/3264458/Forestry-Commission-scraps-Magna-Carta-right-to-collect-woods-from-forests.html</p>
<p>then we get </p>
<p>http://www.forestry.gov.uk/forestry/INFD-7KTLDR</p>
<p>Forestry Commission Wales (FCW) is committed to promoting the use of wood as an economical, sustainable and carbon-neutral fuel.</p>
<p>As more people in Wales turn to wood as a form of fuel, we are changing the way we sell firewood in order to respond to the growing demand in the most appropriate way.</p>
<p>We want to support the development of a firewood supply chain in Wales which delivers a quality firewood product, and also supports community enterprises. Our aim is to develop a network of local firewood merchants and community enterprises who are willing to collect timber from the forest roadside for processing into domestic firewood. </p>
<p>So they are now selling it.. where as three years ago you could collect it&#8230;ummmm&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Tots 100</title>
		<link>http://familytreehouse.co.uk/2010/01/17/tots-100/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jan 2010 16:43:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Vicki</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tots 100 has now got a new sponsor.. I have always loved the idea of someone spending there own time and energy and resources manually going through different sites, and deciding that they will name the top 100 parent blogs. This has appealed to me. Now they have a family holiday firm who are taking [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tots 100 has now got a new sponsor.. I have always loved the idea of someone spending there own time and energy and resources manually going through different sites, and deciding that they will name the top 100 parent blogs. This has appealed to me.</p>
<p>Now they have a family holiday firm who are taking over sponsorship. Allready this is causing some differeing views, between people who are on the list. </p>
<p>I remember the first time  heard of tots 100, I was amazed that my site was on it.. It hasnt been for a while now though <img src='http://familytreehouse.co.uk/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' />   I like the idea a lot, however I am worried, that the sponsorship might go wrong&#8230; I guess we will see&#8230; </p>
<p>I wish them luck with it all&#8230; !!!</p>
<p>http://www.whosthemummy.co.uk/parent-blog-index/</p>
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		<title>Obituary</title>
		<link>http://familytreehouse.co.uk/2009/10/30/obituary/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Oct 2009 20:22:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Vicki</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I first posted this on the 31st December 2008.. I feel compelled to re post it tonight xx In memory of a loved one xxx Obituary My parents told me about Mr Common Sense early in my life and told me I would do well to call on him when making decisions. It seems he [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I first posted this on the 31st December 2008.. I feel compelled to re post it tonight  xx  In memory of a loved one xxx</p>
<p>Obituary</p>
<p>My parents told me about Mr Common Sense early in my life and told me I would do well to call on him when making decisions. It seems he was always around in my early years but less and less as time passed by until today, sadly, I read his obituary.</p>
<p>Please join me in a moment of silence in remembrance. For Common Sense had served us all so well for so many generations.</p>
<p>Obituary</p>
<p>Common Sense</p>
<p>Today we mourn the passing of a beloved old friend, Common Sense, who has been with us for many years. No one knows for sure how old he was since his birth records were long ago lost in bureaucratic red tape.</p>
<p>He will be remembered as having cultivated such valuable lessons as knowing when to come in out of the rain, why the early bird gets the worm, life isn’t always fair, and maybe it was my fault.</p>
<p>Common Sense lived by simple, sound financial policies (don’t spend more than you earn) and reliable parenting strategies (adults, not children are in charge).</p>
<p>His health began to deteriorate rapidly when well intentioned but overbearing regulations were set in place.</p>
<p>Reports of a six-year-old boy charged with sexual harassment for kissing a class mate; teens suspended from school for using mouthwash after lunch; and a teacher fired for reprimanding an unruly student, only worsened his condition.</p>
<p>Common Sense lost ground when parents attacked teachers for doing the job they themselves failed to do in disciplining their unruly children. It declined even further when schools were required to get parental consent to administer Aspirin, sun lotion or a sticky plaster to a student; but could not inform the parents when a student became pregnant and wanted to have an abortion.</p>
<p>Common Sense lost the will to live as the Ten Commandments became contraband; churches became businesses; and criminals received better treatment than their victims.</p>
<p>Common Sense took a beating when you couldn’t defend yourself from a burglar in your own home and the burglar can sue you for assault.</p>
<p>Common Sense finally gave up the will to live, after a woman failed to realise that a steaming cup of coffee was hot. She spilled a little in her lap, and was promptly awarded a huge settlement.</p>
<p>Common Sense was preceded in death by his parents, Truth and Trust; his wife, Discretion;</p>
<p>his daughter, Responsibility; and his son, Reason.</p>
<p>He is survived by three stepbrothers;</p>
<p>I Know My Rights, Someone Else is to Blame, and I’m a Victim.</p>
<p>Not many attended his funeral because so few realised he was gone.</p>
<p>If you still remember him pass this on.</p>
<p>If not, join the majority and do nothing.</p>
<p>Author unknown</p>
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